25 March 2025

Trekking Tales: Saved by a Cigarette on the Helambu Trek

Below is an excerpt from a set of short stories I am writing about my Himalayan trekking adventures.

A view from Tharepati

The third day of the Helambu trek was supposed to be a manageable journey - two strenuous uphill sections from Kutumsang to Tharepati. On the trekking map, the two locations were just an inch apart. The estimated hiking time? Six hours. My reality? Nearly ten.

It turned out to be one of the most unforgettable days of my trekking adventures - not because of the breathtaking landscapes or the serene beauty of the Himalayas, but because of the near disaster that unfolded at the end.

I’ve never been a fast hiker, and since I was trekking solo without a guide to keep me on pace, my short rest stops stretched longer - scenic pauses turned into extended breaks, and lunch time doubled in duration. Despite my leisurely pace, I felt good upon reaching Mangengoth, the midway point for the day, where I stopped for lunch. It was 2 PM when I got back on the trail, reassured by the lodge owners where I was eating my meal that Tharepati was just two hours away.

That’s when things started getting strange.

I found myself stopping constantly to pee. Every time I tried to replenish the lost fluids, the cycle repeated. Almost every 200 meters, I had to stop. This constant start-and-stop routine added at least an hour to my journey. Then came the treacherous parts - sections of the trail wiped out by landslides, leaving me to traverse narrow paths with 50-meter drops. Alone in the wilderness, fear began to creep in.

I hadn’t seen a single soul since leaving Mangengoth. The solitude was turning into loneliness, and it was suffocating.

By 5 PM, the clouds rolled in, and the first sounds of distant thunder sent a chill down my spine. Rain would make this increasingly difficult trek exponentially more dangerous. As darkness fell suddenly, I reached for my headlamp. The visibility dropped to near zero - I could barely see two meters in front of me, as the trickling rain and night fog rendered the light almost useless. Each step forward became a calculated risk as I pressed my hiking stick onto the ground, ensuring I wasn’t about to slip off the mountain’s edge.

Then, a glimmer of hope - I stumbled upon a small cabin. Relief washed over me, only to vanish just as quickly. The cabin was abandoned, in no condition to spend the night. I knew there had been a trekking party ahead of me that had left Mangengoth right when I sat down for lunch. If they made it, there had to be a lodge somewhere. But where? Was I even still on the right trail? Doubt and panic set in.

The rain intensified, and thunder grew louder. I reached the point where fear paralyzed me. Taking another step felt like choosing between three equally terrible options: slipping off the mountain, encountering a wild animal, or being struck by lightning. My mind raced - was this it? Was this how my trek would end?

Then, a miracle.

I heard voices. Villagers, perhaps? But where? The rain and darkness distorted direction. I strained my ears, desperate for any clue. Then, something unexpected - cigarette smoke. The unmistakable scent drifted up from below. Like a cartoon character hypnotized by an alluring aroma, I instinctively followed the scent. Step by cautious step, I made my way down a slope, slipping on patches of snow that had accumulated at the high altitude, until I finally stumbled onto a wooden porch.

Two men stood there, smoking. Recognition hit me - I had seen them at lunch back in Mangengoth. Relief flooded over me. I made it. I was safe.

That night, as I sat by the fireplace at the lodge at Tharepati, shrouded in a blanket, sipping tea, and listening to the storm rage outside, I reflected on the absurdity of it all. Who would have thought that, of all things, cigarette smoke would be my guiding light? In the end, it wasn’t years of trekking experience or sheer determination that saved me - it was a couple of guys taking a smoke break at just the right moment. That night, I learned that sometimes, survival hinges on the most unexpected things - even a cigarette.

10 March 2025

How I started Nepal's first sports website

Long before sports news was just a click away, finding information on Nepali football - let alone sports in Nepal - was a challenge. Growing up as a massive sports fan, I followed international soccer and all the major North American leagues. But due to my Nepali lineage, I was always curious about the sporting scene in Nepal.

Back in the 1990s, however, that curiosity was difficult to satisfy. The Kathmandu Post was the only Nepali newspaper publishing online, and even then, only one sports story would make it onto their site each day. Reliable information on Nepali football was scarce, scattered across the farthest corners of the internet.

A university experiment turned passion project

When I started university in 1997, I wanted to develop my computer skills and figured that creating a website would be a good way to do so. But on what topic? Then it hit me - why not build something that could help others like me? A dedicated website for Nepali football.

Armed with a book titled Build a Website in 24 Hours, I got to work. Within a day, the Nepal Football Homepage (NFH) was live on Geocities, a free web hosting platform. It wasn’t fancy, but it was the first of its kind—a digital home for Nepali football news.

At first, NFH barely attracted any traffic. Maybe 100 clicks a month, most from international football fans curious about football in far-off places. But soon, opportunities started knocking. International media outlets like Futbol Mundial, FourFourTwo, and Football Asia reached out, interested in covering Nepal’s football scene. They needed local insights, and I was happy to provide them.

Screenshot of Nepal Football Homepage
 via "Wayback Machine"

Collaboration with Bhakundo.org.np

By the early 2000s, a fan group called the Nepal Football Fan Club launched a rival website, bhakundo.org.np (not to be confused with the current Bhakundo.np social media channels). Since they were based in Nepal, they had far better access to information than I did from halfway across the world. Instead of competing, I saw an opportunity to join forces? And so, Nepal Football Homepage was absorbed into bhakundo.org.np.

That collaboration lasted until around 2004, when GoalNepal.com came onto the scene, providing real-time, hourly updates on Nepali football. At that point, I knew the landscape had evolved, and it was best to pass the mantle to a platform that could deliver the level of coverage the sport deserved.

A digital footprint that opened doors

What started as a simple university project turned into something much bigger. Through NFH and bhakundo.org.np, I was able to connect with people across the Nepali football ecosystem - players, officials, clubs, media, and fans alike. That early digital footprint ultimately led me to be involved in Nepali football in other ways - at the club, youth, and grassroots levels. 

Looking back, it’s fascinating to see how a small experiment in web development became Nepal’s first dedicated sports website - and furthermore, launched my career in the global sports industry.

06 March 2025

Soccer's soul being challenged by spectacles

Reports suggest FIFA and Coldplay are collaborating on the first ever World Cup Final halftime show.

Maybe I’m old-fashioned (even though I try to see these things through the eyes of my three teenage kid), but I just don’t think this is a good idea for global soccer long-term. Sports evolve, but history proves that no sport’s dominance is guaranteed. Boxing and horse racing were once kings. College football overshadowed the NFL. Baseball was America’s pastime before the NBA surged past it.

I remember when MLS thought cracking the American market meant shootouts, flashy team names, and countdown clocks. It didn’t take long to realize that fans craved the authenticity of global soccer - that hipsters mattered just as much as soccer moms.

Soccer's global passion comes from its working-class roots, ultras culture, fierce derbies, and pure simplicity. Save the halftime shows for the NFL and NBA. Short-term gimmicks might boost engagement, but long-term they chip away at the soul of the game - building its funeral pyre one spectacle at a time.

13 February 2025

Soccer clubs are losing focus. It’s time to rein it in!

Watching Aston Villa take on Spurs in the FA Cup on Sunday, I couldn’t help but notice something that’s been gnawing at me for a while. Tottenham were about to be knocked out of the competition after being totally outclassed by the Villans and as Spurs fans started chanted "Levy Out," it became clear that a club’s business success off the pitch means little if it doesn’t translate to trophies. Daniel Levy has transformed Tottenham into a commercial powerhouse, but fans don’t sing about balance sheets—they sing about silverware.

The problem is, Tottenham’s business model has set a precedent. Other clubs, seeing the revenue streams Spurs have unlocked, are now scrambling to follow suit. Less than 24 hours after the match, Aston Villa themselves proudly announced a Kendrick Lamar concert at Villa Park in the summer. Their fans celebrated the news as though they had reached a cup final —not because it impacts football directly, but because it means more money, which could (theoretically) be spent on the squad.

This is where I take issue. Clubs should not be forced into becoming entertainment conglomerates to compete. Their core competency is football. Revenue should come from footballing activities—ticket sales, broadcasting, sponsorships, and player development—not music festivals or business conferences. The game is heading down a slippery slope where financial clout, not footballing vision, dictates success.

At some point, there needs to be a hard stop. A salary cap tied to football-related revenues could be a solution, ensuring clubs focus on building teams, not business portfolios. Otherwise, we risk turning soccer clubs into event management firms that just happen to field a team on the weekends.

It’s time to realign priorities. Fans deserve football-first clubs, not corporate juggernauts masquerading as teams.

Disclaimer: This piece was generated by ChatGPT based on my inputs. I wanted to test how well AI could capture my sentiments, and I have to say—I’m pleasantly surprised awestruck by the result. It perfectly encapsulates what I was thinking.

31 October 2024

Nepali sports fans are incredible!

 

1M watching!

I was one of the 1 million+ concurrent viewers watching the finals of the SAFF Women's Championship between Nepal and Bangladesh. Tough loss for Nepal, but the game really was not the story. It was the fans!

As expected, Nepal's national stadium, Dasharath Rangashala (yes - where this blog gets its name), was officially packed to capacity at 15,000, with some estimates of an overflow crowd of close to 25,000. Beyond that, there were fan zones setup across the capital and country that attracted tens of thousands of viewers. Then there is the TV viewership - which one sports and media veteran guesstimates at 60% of Nepali households having the game on. This would equate to somewhere around 21 million Nepalis watching the match at home.

A jam packed fan zone in Kathmandu.
Photo: RONB
These are absolutely phenomenal numbers when for example the ongoing MLB baseball World Series between the big market New York Yankees and Los Angeles Dodgers has been getting around 13 to 15 million viewers in the USA - a country ten times the size of Nepal and with infinite times the media, marketing and sports prowess.

In the sports business space, you often read or hear senior executives celebrating a few thousand views of a live stream of a sport event. Nepali fans say, "Hold my milk tea!"

The sports fan frenzy is not a one-off either. Over the summer Nepali fans watched and attended the Men's National Cricket Team at the T20 World Cup in droves, including packing a stadium in Dallas, Texas. In August, the CAVA Women's Volleyball Challenge Cup, which the Nepal Women's National Volleyball Team hosted had over 400 thousand concurrent viewers for the tournament final which involved Nepal. Given that some of these events are lesser regional tournaments the interest level is even more remarkable.

In Nepali sports, often administrators, politicians, officials and sometimes even players go missing (figuratively and literally!) but the fans keep showing up - no matter the sport, tournament, result or gender.

PS - It's what motivates me to keep at it!